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The Bible tells us of the very family on earth: Adam and Eve and their two sons. Cain killed his brother Abel. But afterwards we read that Cain was married (Genesis 4:17). Where did this woman come from?

God does not reveal everything to us in the Bible. He wants us to trust in Him and that is the most important message of the Bible. Many questions are not fully answered in the Bible, because they are irrelevant to us. The Bible does not say in detail where Cain got his wife. We do read in Genesis 5:4 that Adam and Eve had other sons and daughters apart from those that we read of in the Bible. The only answer we therefore have is that Cain married one of his sisters.

So don’t worry yourself too much about Cain’s wife. Cain and all his descendants died (Genesis 7:21-23). The important person to know is the Lord Jesus Christ (1 John 5:10-13). Is he your Saviour and the Lord of your life? Then you have become part of God’s family (John 1:12)

There is no verse in the Bible which says a woman may not preach. But it is clear from Biblical evidence that

(1) Women must not interrupt religious services where the Holy Spirit is at work by asking questions
(1 Corinthians 14:23-35).

(2) A woman is not allowed to “teach”. In the original Greek the word is “didaskein”. Here it means “to teach doctrine by authority” (1 Timothy 2:12). That is, she must not see herself as a person of authority as the apostles were.

But that does not mean that women must be passive and silent in the congregation in which they live. She is allowed to pray and proclaim the message of God just like a man. But that means that she may speak words of edification, exhortation and comfort (1 Corinthians 11:5). And all through the ages we have had women who by their example and comfort and testimonies did valuable work for the Lord. In our own country we see the differently dressed women of all denominations on Thursdays going to prayer-meetings to pray and to witness for the Lord.

Some churches have decided to ordain women as ministers who have the same status as men. Women can become ministers, elders and deacons in those churches and form part of the local church council.

So the answer is yes, some churches allow women to preach, while others do not allow them to do it. You must discuss the matter with your own minister in order to know what the rules of your church are.

Different kinds of baptism

Many thick books have been written on the subject of baptism, and they do not all agree. One of the reasons that makes it difficult to agree is that not everybody noticed that there are different kinds of baptism mentioned in the Bible.

We read for instance of the baptism by John the Baptist. This baptism was called the baptism of repentance. Before he baptised people they had to confess their sins (Mark 1:4). This baptism is not the same as the Christian baptism.

The Christian baptism was only instituted by Christ after his resurrection and before his ascension to heaven (Matthew 28:19-20). Christians are baptised in the Name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit according to the command of Jesus after his resur~rection (Matthew 28:19). The Christian baptism is meant for those people who trust in Christ Jesus as their Saviour (Mark 16:15-16). Therefore people who were baptised with the baptism of repentance had to be baptised again with the Christian baptism when they became Christians (Acts 19:3-5). The baptism of John the Baptist is therefore not an example of Christian baptism. The Christian baptism is sometimes called baptism in the Name of the Lord Jesus to differentiate it from the other kinds of baptism which were known at that time (Acts 19:3).

Can baptism wash away my sins?

Some Christians think that you are born again by being baptised. They think that the “water” of John 3:5 refers to baptism. But John 3:6 explains what Jesus actually meant. He was referring to a baby’s natural birth to explain that natural birth is not enough. You also need a spiritual birth. This is the work of the Holy Spirit in your heart. When you are born the first time, you are the child of your parents.
When you are born again, you become a child of God (John 1:12; Galatians 3:26).

The water of baptism reminds us of the blood of Jesus Christ which is the only thing that can wash away sins (1 John 1:7; Hebrews 9:22).

But what about Mark 16:16?

Mark 16:15-16 does not say that baptism by itself can save you. These verses make clear that faith in Jesus Christ is the only thing that can save you. So we read of the murderer on the cross who was saved without baptism (Luke 23:43), while Judas Iscariot was lost even though he was baptised (Matthew 26:24).

How much water must be used when a person is baptised?

Since it is not the water that washes away our sins, but only the blood of Jesus, the amount of water is not important. The water with which we are baptised, only serves as a symbol of what Jesus did for us with his blood. Baptism through sprinkling of drops of water is just as effective as baptism by immersion under water. So we read in the Bible that some people were baptised in a river (Acts 8:38), while others were baptised in a building (Acts 10:48; 16:33).

It is, however, useful to remember that Christ did not give his blood in a river or a bath, but drop by drop. Baptism by sprinkling with water is therefore a better reminder of what Jesus did for us.

The baptism with the Holy Spirit also helps us to find the best way. The disciples were not immersed into the Spirit, but the Holy Spirit came onto each one individually from above in the form of tongues of fire (Acts 2:3).

Why do some churches also baptise small children?

To understand why some churches also baptise the small children of believers, we need to read the whole Bible. In Genesis 15 we find that God chose one believer, Abraham, to become the father of the people of God. God made a covenant (contract) with Abraham and his descendants to be their God, and they had to obey God and be his people on earth (Genesis 17:7). The sign of this covenant was circumcision of all the males
(Genesis 17:11-14). Abraham was ninety-nine years old when he was circumcised and his son Ishmael was thirteen (Genesis 17:23-27). All boys born after that time were circumcised when they were eight days old (Genesis 17:11; 21:4).

The New Testament explains to us that this covenant was not only with the Jews, but in actual fact it is with all true believers. Anyone who believes in the Lord Jesus Christ becomes a partaker of this covenant and a child of Abraham (Galatians 3:29). Therefore the apostle Peter said on the day of Pentecost that the promise of God is not only for believers but also for their children (Acts 2:39).

An important change came at this time. The sign of the covenant changed from circumcision to baptism. The blood of the circum~cision pointed forward to the blood of Christ that had to flow in order to make us children of God. Jesus was the final sacrifice (Hebrews 9:12; 1 Peter 1:18-19). When false teachers tried to convince the believers in Colossae that they also had to be circumcised, otherwise they could not
be saved, the apostle Paul explained to them that they had already received the sign of the covenant when they were baptised (Colossians 2:11-12). The sign of baptism therefore means that this person belongs to the people of God. Only those who put their trust in Jesus have the right to be baptised, together with their children (Acts 16:30-34).

Do I have to be baptised again and again?

No. If I have marked my sheep with my sign and it gets lost and I find it again afterwards, there is no need to mark it again. It still bears my mark. If a person who is baptised goes astray and returns to God afterwards, there is no need to baptise him again. He still bears the “mark” of the Living God.

One is baptised only once. The other sacrament, the Holy Communion, is celebrated again and again as a witness to all.

For some people of Africa who don’t know the Bible, the word “sin” can have various meanings. For some it means the breaking of tribal laws: transgressions against other people, against the ancestor spirits. To rectify the guilt is to bring offerings, to be punished etc. “Sin” is not punished in the next world and “doing good” is not rewarded, so they believe.

They don’t have a sense of guilt. A person commits sins when his wrong deed is discovered or when a witchdoctor find him guilty. He then regards it as unhappy but he does not feel guilty.

But the Bible as the Word of Almighty God to us, tells us what sin is. The Holy Spirit came to this world to reveal to us what sin really is. John 16:8 says of the Holy Spirit: “And when he comes, he will prove to the people of the world that they are wrong about sin and about what is right and about God’s judgment.” Sin is not to believe in the God of the Bible and in the Lord Jesus Christ, His son. (See verse 9.)

Sin is to believe the Adversary (Satan) instead of believing God’s Word. Sin is to do wrong things when tempted to do so (See James 1:13-15).

It is very important to understand what sin is, because it causes division between us and God (Isaiah 59:2). It causes divisions and strife between people too.

Jesus said the world is guilty of sin because it does not believe in him (John 16:9). Sin is to be disobedient to God and His Word (Romans 5:19). These things are contrary to His will (Galatians 5:1921).

If we want to live and die happily we must know the following things:

1. How great my sin and misery are.

Firstly: We must know our sins, because it is the cause of all our misery. We are punished because of it. We learn what sin is when we study the law of God (Romans 3:20). We must return to God like the prodigal son and admit and confess our sin (Luke 15:18,19). If we haven’t done so yet, we are enemies of God and our fellowmen.

2. How I can be saved from my sins.

Secondly: We must know how we can be saved from sin and guilt and misery. The Word of God teaches us how we can be saved. God made it possible when he sent his son Jesus to be the Saviour of sinners. By believing in Him, we are saved (Matthew 1:21). There is no other way (Acts 4:12).

3. How I can thank God for my salvation.

In the third place, it is important to show our thankfulness towards God because He saved us. We can do so by doing good works. By those works we can help our fellowmen to come to Christ.

To sum up, we can say: Sin is to allow Satan to rule our lives. But when we accept Jesus as Saviour, we belong to Him (1 Corinthians 3:23; 6:19: Titus 2:14; 1 Peter 1:1819). The child of God must always do what Hebrews 12:12 teaches.